Deny Yourself
A common excuse people use to justify sinful behavior is “I was born that way” or “I can’t help the way I am.” And I do not disagree with their self-assessment. Scripture agrees with them, too.
Psalm 51:5 Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.
But being born sinful does not give you the right to live that way and insist that God must accept you on your terms. If you choose to live in your sin without repentance, God will allow you to do so. He will also give you what your sins deserve.
How that must break the Father’s heart. He has provided a way for you to be set free from your sin and its eternal consequences. Jesus took care of that with a perfect life and the offering of that sinless life as the sacrifice for the sins of the world. If you trust in Him, forgiveness is yours.
There are those who try to twist the message of Scripture to say that belief in Jesus is permission to continue sinning without remorse or repentance. That is the opposite of what Jesus said. While Jesus spent all of His time with sinners, He never joined them in their sins. And His constant encouragement was to stop sinning, as He told the woman caught in adultery:
John 8:11b “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
When God forgives you, a sense of gratitude should be the result, a gratitude that seeks to express itself in your life. You want to live in a new way, the new life to which God has called you, which strives to leave sin behind and live according to God’s Will.
Matthew 16:24–25 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it.
Those who want to continue in their sins do not “deny themselves.” They think that indulging in their sins will give them the life they are searching for. But they end up losing the life God wants them to have, life eternal with Him.
God gives you the strength and power to deny the desires of your old sinful self. The problem is we don’t always use that power. We stumble and fail and fall. But God’s grace is a reality in the lives of those who put their confidence in Jesus. We admit our sin, repent, and God reassures us of His forgiveness for Jesus’ sake.
1 John 1:8–9 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.